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Hi Jess, I love this article and totally agree that we should scrutinise what we think we already know. What struck me most, as a parent of a daughter who plays sport, was point 2. My daughter, a year 10 at secondary school, has been undertaking an umpire course for a sport she plays. Part of the course is umpiring games for years 5/6 of primary school kids. Last week, I went to watch the competition, and found myself having to have a conversation with sideline mums to remind them that the abusive comments they were throwing out, were to a 14 year old girl. A 14 year old girl who is giving up her time, during GCSE prep time to encourage their children to play this game. A 14 year old girl who loves and plays this very sport 4 times a week and it's her passion. A 14 year old girl who already struggles with self esteem issues and is putting it all out there for their children to be able to be here today. And, a 14 year old girl who was my daughter and who I would have to spend the 40 minute drive home talking to about the hurtful comments thrown at her.

Parental attitudes and behaviours have a massive impact on our females as players, coaches and officials and we need to start changing them at a young age, to support our girls progressing in sports they love.

I love how you address these issues, thank you ♥️

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